tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post1321262955697745002..comments2024-03-28T19:25:37.448-04:00Comments on Betrayed Wives' Club: Love among the ruins: Healing yourself from betrayalEllehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13470499558973726796noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-77317436752121843922019-10-08T22:32:34.183-04:002019-10-08T22:32:34.183-04:00I continued my running regime and write EVERYTHING...I continued my running regime and write EVERYTHING in my journal just to get it out of my head. When I'm not near my journal i put it in a doc on my phone. It seems to help and then I don't feel the need to spout everything to my cheating husband. It helps me to process.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-55809748252289786192017-06-20T09:56:40.520-04:002017-06-20T09:56:40.520-04:00Anonymous,
Sounds like you're handling this th...Anonymous,<br />Sounds like you're handling this the best you can. There is no "right" way to respond to this but whatever keeps you sane and healthy and moving forward, inch by inch, is a good thing. Thanks for posting. Ellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13470499558973726796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-64513568395348181632017-06-20T01:11:25.266-04:002017-06-20T01:11:25.266-04:00I discovered my husbands affair about a month ago....I discovered my husbands affair about a month ago. I don't know if I am dealing with it ok but from what I have read here, I am bound to have highs and lows. On the nights I can't sleep( which are many), I do crafts and I write. I rant and rave and put all my dark thoughts on paper then post them on an anonymous blog I created just for that purpose. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-40964343867937104252010-02-04T01:37:51.978-05:002010-02-04T01:37:51.978-05:00After i discovered my husbands affair, i could not...After i discovered my husbands affair, i could not sleep or eat for weeks and i needed anti depressants. But then i pulled myself out of it. I began to exercise 3 times a day. At night i would go for long walks before bedtime till finally i was able to sleep without any medication.I lost weight,began getting compliments, which made me feel good. It also got the cheaters attention and he grudingly admmited that i had done wonders! So go for it girls - just get up and do it! Get moving , release those good endorphins , anything is better than sitting around moping and self pitying.Gmanoreply@blogger.com