tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post4069917025278458972..comments2024-03-28T19:25:37.448-04:00Comments on Betrayed Wives' Club: You Are Your Own TeacherEllehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13470499558973726796noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-39368987993066424132015-11-27T19:47:19.426-05:002015-11-27T19:47:19.426-05:00Can't sleep need to talk so here I am my h had...Can't sleep need to talk so here I am my h had an affair with a 21 yr old he's 54 it's been a year since I found out we are trying . I want revenge she's got away with six thousand pounds of our money she paying it back 100 pounds per month she been forgiven by her Jehovah witness group I want to fuck her life up I want my money back I want her to hurt like I do I want her not sleep and cry all night like I do what can I do I don't want to feel like this anymore .Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17319426201603999105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-51898405034059138332015-11-27T19:35:31.724-05:002015-11-27T19:35:31.724-05:00I have to write this down I'm feeling so despe...I have to write this down I'm feeling so desperate one of my no sleep night . Love this blog it's helped me so much . My h cheated on me with his nurse he's a dentist she was 21 he 54 . I've been through hell and so have my children but I can't get her out of my head I want revenge on her so much she walked away clean and with six thousand pounds of our money which she pays back at a hundred pounds a month i realise it's not all her fault but all I do is think of how they and he lied to me like it was all a piece of fun I want to write to her mother and tell her what a nasty little bitch her daughter is they are Jehovah witnesses I've been on the website she's not suppose to do that she got forgiven by the elders apparently but of course I've had so many lies I can't believe a thing he's told me we are so much better now I think if I can allow myself that happiness , I still want revenge . She's left where he works but I find her on the local dentists website of course I'm looking she live 2 miles from my house so I avoid the nearest town in case she's there I don't want to be scared anymore I'm so sad . Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17319426201603999105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-41021967511056492262015-11-11T11:19:19.522-05:002015-11-11T11:19:19.522-05:00just wanted to add how much this site has meant to...just wanted to add how much this site has meant to me. The articles posted and the responses have helped me so much. This whole piece about being my"own" teacher. I was becoming critical of my husband because he hasn't sought answers and information, he has been listening to what I have read, and that should be encouraging.I really like the part of coaxing your teacher out, as far as how that wisdom has been showing up in your body, and then listening. Thank you for this blog, I wish I didn't need it so much. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-25563333907259518802015-11-10T10:16:18.100-05:002015-11-10T10:16:18.100-05:00Ok, thanks. One day I will revisit it ...Ok, thanks. One day I will revisit it ...Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15625911085419338023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-85539890171891483382015-11-09T12:45:16.609-05:002015-11-09T12:45:16.609-05:00I used to complain to my therapist that I was sick...I used to complain to my therapist that I was sick to death of discovering how "strong" I could be. However, it seems to be our lot, ladies, to discover our hidden strength. ;)Ellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13470499558973726796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-82462696373787825142015-11-09T12:44:07.924-05:002015-11-09T12:44:07.924-05:00Melissa,
I'm not sure what happened. I didn...Melissa,<br />I'm not sure what happened. I didn't find your posts in the spam folder either. I know Steam has said that sometimes her comments vanish in the "Captcha" part of the process. I wish I was more techy and knew what to suggest. Sorry!Ellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13470499558973726796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-77425802765558645532015-11-05T16:38:17.813-05:002015-11-05T16:38:17.813-05:00I second what Melissa said. This is the only pla... I second what Melissa said. This is the only place where I felt like people actually knew what I was going through. I've saved several things that you and others said to me. Thank you for giving me a haven and a support group! I constantly marvel that you are strong enough to continue to do what you do. Phoenixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13408004849930367780noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-44886503219238347582015-11-05T13:03:54.416-05:002015-11-05T13:03:54.416-05:00Elle, I actually posted three times ... the second...Elle, I actually posted three times ... the second one was quite lengthy, yet it is not here? It seemed to have gone through fine?Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15625911085419338023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-33897256734800042452015-11-05T09:36:06.163-05:002015-11-05T09:36:06.163-05:00Melissa,
I hope you know how much you've contr...Melissa,<br />I hope you know how much you've contributed to the environment here -- of acceptance and compassion and support. We're the richer for having you among us. Ellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13470499558973726796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-30462223157120133332015-11-05T06:16:29.203-05:002015-11-05T06:16:29.203-05:00Oh, one more thing. Just so you all know that b... Oh, one more thing. Just so you all know that both my therapist and my husband ask about you or refer to you every once in a while. My therapist noted during our discussion about the grieving that she felt that by my participating in this blog it has certainly helped in my healing process. And my husband will ask sometimes when he sees me on my phone reading he will say are you with your blog ladies? How are they doing? I wish all people who have the unfortunate experience of learning of an affair in their marriage… I wish they all could know Elle, this blog and all of you ladies. My heartfelt gratitude to each and everyone of you <3Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15625911085419338023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-362399676131759292015-11-04T20:36:48.568-05:002015-11-04T20:36:48.568-05:00Thank you Elle. And know this ... with my very fi...Thank you Elle. And know this ... with my very first post here of tremendous pain, you answered me, and I wept. Really? There is someone ... and as the other ladies chimed in ... many someones that got me, that knew what I was going through. I will be forever grateful. Tomorrow I will post again.Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15625911085419338023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-62776159645489611602015-11-04T17:17:57.295-05:002015-11-04T17:17:57.295-05:00Thanks for this Elle. Some days I wish someone els...Thanks for this Elle. Some days I wish someone else did have the answers but I know, however hard it is to accept, that I am the only one with who can and will make the decision. It's been a few months since d day. We are separated and have a small child. I am taking my time, watching my husband and listening to myself. I still don't know yet what my choice will be, at this point it really could go either way. But I know ultimately only i will know what to do, because at some point my heart & mind will tell me if I'll be happier with or without him. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com