tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post5688814112148060754..comments2024-03-27T21:50:33.178-04:00Comments on Betrayed Wives' Club: No safe place: Where to turn when dealing with his affairEllehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13470499558973726796noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-74473594573053445822016-06-18T23:37:36.357-04:002016-06-18T23:37:36.357-04:00Sounds silly but I wish no one knew. I wish I coul...Sounds silly but I wish no one knew. I wish I could hide behind masks. My husband's "mistake" was also illegal. And published in the town paper, as well as all of the neighborin town papers. So we had to tell our families and friends the truth before it got to them.. Because while yes it was illegal, it isn't as bad as the papers made it. Which puts my whole marriage issues on blast. Yay! Now every time I see or talk to some one they look at me with pity. Or they tell me I'm being so brave. And so strong. And I'm one of a kind for not leaving. And I want to tell them all that this is not bravery what I'm doing. It's what I promised to do. Just because he broke promises doesn't mean I will. Maybe it's stubbornness. I don't know. It's all so fresh. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-54042599571839171132014-09-02T10:17:54.665-04:002014-09-02T10:17:54.665-04:00Yes, yes, YES. That was also one of the hardest pa...Yes, yes, YES. That was also one of the hardest parts for me. It still is, frankly, and over time I've disclosed what happened to people I trust. I wonder if the day will come when I'm totally "out". Ellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13470499558973726796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-17968278089112031282014-08-31T19:28:08.171-04:002014-08-31T19:28:08.171-04:00i too wear masks. I am 6 months in to this. i thin...i too wear masks. I am 6 months in to this. i think i hate the masks worst of all, because one of my core values is authenticityAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com