tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post5597314908739923646..comments2024-03-17T12:13:33.772-04:00Comments on Betrayed Wives' Club: Pain in the Neck: A Story with a Happy EndingEllehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13470499558973726796noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-8839219780382647882012-07-03T13:20:28.479-04:002012-07-03T13:20:28.479-04:00You've been through hell...now it's time t...You've been through hell...now it's time to keep going to emerge from it. What can you do to take care of yourself? What can you do now that you know he wasn't committed to truly reconciling? What choices can you make that respect and honor yourself and your heart's desires? <br />These are the questions you need to start asking yourself. You can keep on playing the victim...or you can take back your power and start living the life YOU want to life, without the lies, deceit and pain. It's not easy -- in fact, it's really hard. I know that. But it's also possible. And, I would think, far more preferable than to continue to live not knowing what he's doing and with whom. <br />Start imagining how life COULD be...and then set about creating that, one (tiny, if necessary) step at a time.<br />In the meantime, we're here to keep reminding you that you can do this, whatever "this" is for you.<br />ElleEllehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13470499558973726796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-41103101296514714782012-07-03T01:50:26.769-04:002012-07-03T01:50:26.769-04:00I know this is months later, but I spent Christmas...I know this is months later, but I spent Christmas day with a migraine brought on by the stress of having to choose to take my two children to church alone leaving him at home with the OC because he didn't want to go to church. Since then i have learned of the ongoing affair with OW#2. But I missed church with my family on Christmas, which is important to me, because the issue with him caused me pain to the point of migraine. <br />That was the 4th miserable Christmas in a row. I have learned to dread Christmas. I don't even want to think that far ahead this year. I haven't seen him in the three wks since discovering the affair that has been going on since I learned of the OC. <br /><br />I was hoping 2012 would be less painful too, but it has been so much more painful. I hoping to put my life back together but I know I have to do it differently than I tried the first time. <br /><br />Imagine if you had to go through this twice....the pain, the confusion...<br /><br />It's no wonder I'm such a mess.Emotional Tornadohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01218071938634325194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-17025507524791949912011-12-31T18:22:50.643-05:002011-12-31T18:22:50.643-05:00Happy New Year, Elle. And, to all my sisters in t...Happy New Year, Elle. And, to all my sisters in the BWC, I'm wishing that 2012 is less painful than 2011.Pippinoreply@blogger.com