tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post6335558118717003159..comments2024-03-27T21:50:33.178-04:00Comments on Betrayed Wives' Club: This might make you weep with joy...Ellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13470499558973726796noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-28254993183538399692011-05-10T11:07:24.213-04:002011-05-10T11:07:24.213-04:00It will come if you keep working towards it. I hon...It will come if you keep working towards it. I honestly thought I would never, EVER feel joy again. I had pretty much accepted that my task was to put in time until I died.<br />It was around that time that my counsellor put me on ADs, though I had resisted them. She maintains that chronic stress/anxiety can alter your brain chemistry...and that you can't "will" it back into health. I finally relented and I do think they made a difference.<br />And I do think it's also a matter of "glass half-full/half-empty". Life will never be the same...there's no denying that. But my guess is there are still blessings in your life. By focussing on the hurt and not the joy, we often deprive ourselves of such pleasure.<br />Hang in there...it'll come.Ellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13470499558973726796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-61323812121564075472011-05-05T12:11:00.122-04:002011-05-05T12:11:00.122-04:00I'm personally 14 months out from D-day and I ...I'm personally 14 months out from D-day and I don't think I've made such a positive statement. I've always known I'd carry on as happy as I could be on a day to day basis, but maybe I should get a little more positive about my life...HisAffair.OurMarriagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02707869152720514610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-63840126723860573252011-05-03T06:13:11.381-04:002011-05-03T06:13:11.381-04:00Yeah... five months out from D-Day I am not quite ...Yeah... five months out from D-Day I am not quite ready for this conversation with Life but I am sure a little ways into the future I do see a light at the end of the tunnel, or at least a break in between tunnels. The other question to ask is "what choice do we really have?" It's either embrace life again and strive for happiness - alone or reconciled or in a new relationship - or die. And really, why should WE die when we are done unto? We deserve to hold that face and love it again.Janicenoreply@blogger.com