Hello my secret sisters (and the occasional brother)!  It has taken me far longer than I'd intended (something about the 'best-laid ...

 Hey Betrayeds, On Tuesday, September 29, 2009, I posted three blog entries, my first of what would become 1,178 posts, which would garner  ...

I noticed this one year ago, when one of our secret sisters posted these words on Valentine's Day:  " Being in the time after he ch...

I screenshot this comment many months ago because I was so struck by how this question was framed:   "How we do hold people accountable...

It sometimes feels like we are all forever putting ourselves back together, but I have only ever felt stronger for doing it. It seems to me ...

Our good friend to Betrayed Wives Club (and who created this kickass design and logo) StillStanding gave me some advice recently. I had told...

Most people haven’t even noticed their strength. They’re so focussed on their pain. ~ Rachel Naomi Remen, author Kitchen Table Wisdom Our ho...

In hindsight, I knew my husband was cheating and I knew with whom before he admitted it to me. I knew before I knew . Of course, there was l...

I had never heard of Jen Hatmaker and remain somewhat mystified how she came to my attention but I think it was around the time her marriage...

We've all heard the analogy of the frog and the boiling water, right? How a frog put into a pot of water that's slowly heated until ...

I wrote the title of this blog post on my phone and then emailed it to myself. That's how I keep track of interesting phrases, or quotes...

Nothing, of course, happens fast enough and we just want to be returned to that uncomplicated life we once had – we want stability restored ...

 

 

 

 

 

 

You've got to tell the world how to treat you [because] if the world tells you how you are going to be treated, you are in trouble. ~Jam...