As you heal (read: apply compassion to your pain; forgive some people; turn anxiety into insight), what you’re attracted to is going to chan...

Often I hear something like , “I told you I was sorry about the affair ten times so let’s drop it already.”  That won’t cut it. High-stakes ...

"Sometimes we stay in relationships that are unhealthy for us because of love, so we tell ourselves, yet when we really look at why we...

"The shadow self is not of itself evil; it just allows you to do evil without calling it evil." ~Fr. Richard Rohr It's no...

"Steam" often comments on posts and shares her hard-won wisdom with others on this site. She's got such compassion and commo...

"Steam" often comments to this site, offering up her experience as a guide to others, and supporting those who aren't as far a...

Definitely not smiling! A woman recently posted a comment on my blog post  Open Letter to the Other Woman . Here it is: Does anyone (l...