I screenshot this comment many months ago because I was so struck by how this question was framed:   "How we do hold people accountable...

It sometimes feels like we are all forever putting ourselves back together, but I have only ever felt stronger for doing it. It seems to me ...

Our good friend to Betrayed Wives Club (and who created this kickass design and logo) StillStanding gave me some advice recently. I had told...

Most people haven’t even noticed their strength. They’re so focussed on their pain. ~ Rachel Naomi Remen, author Kitchen Table Wisdom Our ho...

 

  ...the trick in life is not to try harder but to resist less. ~From a conversation with Anne Lamott, Washington Post I am the queen of try...

One of the most difficult things about healing from being hurt by others is how to put wounds to rest when those who have hurt us will not g...

I’ve had a hard time showing up here the past week or so. Like so many, I’ve been gripped by images of protests around the United States an...

Like Sally, I loved w abandon n adoration. But like this Sally👇🏼 I only loved t Linus tht I approved of. He is so much more. I must lea...

One of the many challenges we face as a betrayed wife (or partner) is around trust. How can we trust him again? Who can we trust with ou...

Betrayal is lonely business. Not only are we left reeling from the shock of a husband's affair, we're experiencing it in a culture...

Hope by Victoria Safford Our mission is to plant ourselves at the gates of Hope— Not the prudent gates of Optimism, Which are somewhat ...

I was listening to a radio program the other day featuring a guy who lost the use of his legs in a horrible cycling accident. After spendi...

My daughter is frustrated. She has a friend who routinely suggests grabbing something to eat after school but who inevitably turns out to ...

A while back, Snowbird shared her story on the Feeling Stuck Part 14 forum (so many incredible women on this site). And she also shared th...

I think one of the issues that we have is that we don't necessarily recognize that a thought is just a thought. We have a certain though...

An old weathered heart can still break. My 17-year-old is nursing a broken heart. After spending much of the summer with a certain youn...