Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Should you tell?

Infidelity can be isolating.

There are those who have no trouble telling the world their woes...and often getting enormous support in the process.

Who you tell is a personal choice, clearly. But think it through. Stacey told anyone and everyone in the first few weeks. Now, she says, she wishes she hadn’t as she’s moved past it…but not everyone else will let her forget. Nikki says it isn’t a “one size fits all” situation. Depending on the person, she either reveals that she and her husband are having troubles, that her husband had an affair, that he’s a sex addict in treatment or…nothing at all. Stick to people you trust to support you. You don’t need to add more fuel to your outrage. You need someone to talk you in off the ledge. If all else fails, we’re here…

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