Wow, this is SO true. I have learned and grown so much as a person and in my marriage as a result of my husband's betrayal. It was the most devastating traumatic experience of my life but the ways I have grown after the initial hell has been truly amazing. I know who I am and what I am worth and what I deserve more than ever and Im confident in myself and my boundaries and my future. This quote just hit me and I felt empowered to comment. Its been almost 3 years of the most raw vulnerable growth and healing I never could have imagined. This has been true for my husband as well. Welcome to any new members who unfortunately find themselves in this club but there is wonderful support and insight throughout the pages.
Thank you for your comment. I just began reading this site due to my current situation as being with an unfaithful partner. I often think I am not good enough, what went wrong, should I loose weight, make life style changes etc. We are trying to work through this situation together and its really though some days are better than others.and its good to read not all of them end in divorce. That it can work.its good to read that I am a worthy person no matter the outcome. Whatever that may be...
Thank you for your comment. I just began reading this site due to my current situation as being with an unfaithful partner. I often think I am not good enough, what went wrong, should I loose weight, make life style changes etc. We are trying to work through this situation together and its really though some days are better than others.and its good to read not all of them end in divorce. That it can work.its good to read that I am a worthy person no matter the outcome. Whatever that may be...
Im so sorry you find yourself here but you are in the right place. So much support and insight to be found here! You are absolutely worthy regardless of the outcome. As to the losing weight etc thoughts....if you read here enough, you will learn that he did not cheat b./c of anything was wrong with you, he cheated b/c of whats wrong with him!! And its his job to figure that out and to do the hard work to figure that out and change.
I have discovered my husband of 43 years has been having multiple affairs/sex with young women and helping them financially. Devastated by this, as you can imagine. He has said he likes to just talk to them ha ha. I am trying to get counseling and not sure how to get through this.
Wow, this is SO true. I have learned and grown so much as a person and in my marriage as a result of my husband's betrayal. It was the most devastating traumatic experience of my life but the ways I have grown after the initial hell has been truly amazing. I know who I am and what I am worth and what I deserve more than ever and Im confident in myself and my boundaries and my future. This quote just hit me and I felt empowered to comment. Its been almost 3 years of the most raw vulnerable growth and healing I never could have imagined. This has been true for my husband as well. Welcome to any new members who unfortunately find themselves in this club but there is wonderful support and insight throughout the pages.
ReplyDeleteThank you for your comment. I just began reading this site due to my current situation as being with an unfaithful partner. I often think I am not good enough, what went wrong, should I loose weight, make life style changes etc. We are trying to work through this situation together and its really though some days are better than others.and its good to read not all of them end in divorce. That it can work.its good to read that I am a worthy person no matter the outcome. Whatever that may be...
ReplyDeleteThank you for your comment. I just began reading this site due to my current situation as being with an unfaithful partner. I often think I am not good enough, what went wrong, should I loose weight, make life style changes etc. We are trying to work through this situation together and its really though some days are better than others.and its good to read not all of them end in divorce. That it can work.its good to read that I am a worthy person no matter the outcome. Whatever that may be...
ReplyDeleteIm so sorry you find yourself here but you are in the right place. So much support and insight to be found here! You are absolutely worthy regardless of the outcome. As to the losing weight etc thoughts....if you read here enough, you will learn that he did not cheat b./c of anything was wrong with you, he cheated b/c of whats wrong with him!! And its his job to figure that out and to do the hard work to figure that out and change.
ReplyDeleteI have discovered my husband of 43 years has been having multiple affairs/sex with young women and helping them financially. Devastated by this, as you can imagine. He has said he likes to just talk to them ha ha. I am trying to get counseling and not sure how to get through this.
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