I am 8 months out from my dday. How do you get over googling everything? I feel like I am creating more suffering for myself when I do this. My H's infidelity happened years ago but just confessed. H and the married secretary at the job he worked at flirted and messed around but didn't have sex - he chickened out when they decided on meeting up but instead he ended up going to a massage parlor and had sex. And then went back for a BJ and several hand jobs.
It takes time. If you feel the need to google everything do it but, don’t stay in that emotional spot. Make sure you are taking time for you. Self care is the one of the most important parts of your healing.
I am 8 months out from my dday. How do you get over googling everything? I feel like I am creating more suffering for myself when I do this. My H's infidelity happened years ago but just confessed. H and the married secretary at the job he worked at flirted and messed around but didn't have sex - he chickened out when they decided on meeting up but instead he ended up going to a massage parlor and had sex. And then went back for a BJ and several hand jobs.
ReplyDeleteIt takes time. If you feel the need to google everything do it but, don’t stay in that emotional spot. Make sure you are taking time for you. Self care is the one of the most important parts of your healing.
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