What a beautiful hug! I’ve been off the site for a bit as I have handled the transition of my mother from hospice care to her resting peacefully in heaven with her family... she had the best Thanksgiving reunion of her life as she surrendered her worn out body for her reward of the forever life...Thanks secret sisters for holding me up through my journey! Sending hugs!
Oh Theresa, I'm sorry about the loss of your mother, though I don't think she could have had a more devoted daughter. I'm glad you feel held up by all of us here. I've no doubt you'll be in all of our thoughts.
Oh no Theresa. I’m so so sorry please know my heart is with you right now. The pain of losing a mother is heartbreaking as me, Elle and others have discussed on this site. You will have comfort knowing you were with her when she needed you and your h was right beside you helping whenever he could... sending you love Theresa xxx
Theresa, it's so hard to lose a parent. I think it is ok to feel a whole lot of conflicting things. You know you did your absolute best for her. I wish I was there to make you a cup of tea and hold your hand. much love
Oh Theresa - I'm so sorry for your loss. From one sister to another ... take time to grieve this loss ... and just know that the "relief" you'll feel is perfectly normal! I wished someone would have told me that after my mom passed away after a 14 month battle with cancer.
Theresa, I am sorry for your loss and celebrate your new life moving forward. I so wish I could share a very personal experience with you that parallels yours. A warm hug from me to you. Time to breathe.
Kimberly Thanks for the reply. I continue to have the support of my great hospice team as well as the church family that loved my mother through the past 10 years. I’m grieving slowly and I’m just getting used to the fact that my h and I gave her the best 10 months that she has had in a long time. I’m grateful for all of my secret sisters!
What a beautiful hug! I’ve been off the site for a bit as I have handled the transition of my mother from hospice care to her resting peacefully in heaven with her family... she had the best Thanksgiving reunion of her life as she surrendered her worn out body for her reward of the forever life...Thanks secret sisters for holding me up through my journey! Sending hugs!
ReplyDeleteOh Theresa, I'm sorry about the loss of your mother, though I don't think she could have had a more devoted daughter. I'm glad you feel held up by all of us here. I've no doubt you'll be in all of our thoughts.
DeleteOh no Theresa. I’m so so sorry please know my heart is with you right now. The pain of losing a mother is heartbreaking as me, Elle and others have discussed on this site. You will have comfort knowing you were with her when she needed you and your h was right beside you helping whenever he could... sending you love Theresa xxx
DeleteTheresa, it's so hard to lose a parent. I think it is ok to feel a whole lot of conflicting things. You know you did your absolute best for her. I wish I was there to make you a cup of tea and hold your hand. much love
DeleteOh Theresa - I'm so sorry for your loss. From one sister to another ... take time to grieve this loss ... and just know that the "relief" you'll feel is perfectly normal! I wished someone would have told me that after my mom passed away after a 14 month battle with cancer.
ReplyDeleteThinking of you!
Kimberly,
DeleteYes, losing a mom feels almost primal. Our first relationship. Time does heal.
Theresa, I am sorry for your loss and celebrate your new life moving forward. I so wish I could share a very personal experience with you that parallels yours. A warm hug from me to you. Time to breathe.
ReplyDeleteKimberly
ReplyDeleteThanks for the reply. I continue to have the support of my great hospice team as well as the church family that loved my mother through the past 10 years. I’m grieving slowly and I’m just getting used to the fact that my h and I gave her the best 10 months that she has had in a long time. I’m grateful for all of my secret sisters!