Guilty!!! I've had enough. Enough of feeling not god enough from the years of emotional abuse by the ex. When all along it was him with the problem - and look. Look what ended up happening. His true colours came out. He's nothing but a low life lying piece of cheating shit! I'm so mad reading new posts of all these betrayals and women going through similar things that I have experienced. I want to cleanse my negative thoughts from my negative ex. I need to get out of this funk. But first I need to sleep - long day at work. Hugs Gabby xo
What's always astounding to me is that the women who have made themselves small to suit others are always those who are naturally HUGE! Big hearts, big minds, big dreams. Let yourself grow back, Gabby. Sleep first. And then start taking up space in this world again. You deserve it.
I needed this today so badly, i lost my job last week and so the world just keeps on turning just like when i was knee deep in betrayal years ago ... you know what change can be hard and scary but change can also be good. Im trying to stay positive and productive but today also told myself i need a balance to relax some too ... this too shall pass ...wounded not broken betrayal taught me alot that i will now apply to this new venture sure not the same but similar as im going to find myself again and press forward.
I'm sorry, Wounded. That can feel really scary. But you're right -- in there is opportunity to find something that's a better fit for you. This is where self-care becomes even more crucial. Be kind to yourself. Remember that pretty much everyone will go through this at some point. And remind yourself how strong and brave you are. This too shall pass.
Guilty!!!
ReplyDeleteI've had enough. Enough of feeling not god enough from the years of emotional abuse by the ex. When all along it was him with the problem - and look. Look what ended up happening. His true colours came out. He's nothing but a low life lying piece of cheating shit!
I'm so mad reading new posts of all these betrayals and women going through similar things that I have experienced.
I want to cleanse my negative thoughts from my negative ex. I need to get out of this funk.
But first I need to sleep - long day at work.
Hugs
Gabby xo
What's always astounding to me is that the women who have made themselves small to suit others are always those who are naturally HUGE! Big hearts, big minds, big dreams. Let yourself grow back, Gabby. Sleep first. And then start taking up space in this world again. You deserve it.
DeleteGreat plan! I’m up for the challenge!!
ReplyDeleteI know you are, Theresa! And I know that you're here to shepherd those others who need reminding.
DeleteI needed this today so badly, i lost my job last week and so the world just keeps on turning just like when i was knee deep in betrayal years ago ... you know what change can be hard and scary but change can also be good. Im trying to stay positive and productive but today also told myself i need a balance to relax some too ... this too shall pass ...wounded not broken betrayal taught me alot that i will now apply to this new venture sure not the same but similar as im going to find myself again and press forward.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry, Wounded. That can feel really scary. But you're right -- in there is opportunity to find something that's a better fit for you. This is where self-care becomes even more crucial. Be kind to yourself. Remember that pretty much everyone will go through this at some point. And remind yourself how strong and brave you are. This too shall pass.
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